Showing posts with label sadness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sadness. Show all posts

Friday, August 10, 2012

Aurora, Colorado

On my way to Denver Airport this morning, I passed signs for Aurora, site of the senseless movie-theater massacre a couple of weeks ago.

The little all-American town is less than fifteen minutes from Denver airport, so I wanted to go to see for myself and pay my respects at the makeshift memorial that had been put together by family, friends, and community-members of the victims.

Just approaching the exit for Aurora, I felt a really ominous dreadful feeling. I'm sure Colorado-ans will be unable to drive anywhere near or past the town without remembering what happened here for years to come.



The theater has been complete shut down and fenced off.



Directly across from it sits a mall that looks like any mall you could find in any town in America.



The town features familiar chain stores like Target, Best Buy, Barnes & Noble, The Container Store etc etc, which just serves to remind you that this tragedy really could have happened anywhere.

On an empty corner facing the theater, a memorial to the victims had been built.






All the media coverage of the event kind of annoys me because so much of it focuses on the crazy ass who committed the crime, and rarely ever do they focus on the actual victims who perished.

Walking through the memorial was a striking reminder that in tragedies like this each number making up the "body count" is an individual life, and the loss of each and every one of these lives affects the tens and hundreds of people close to them.



It's all just really really sad. Yet another reminder that life can be over in the blink of an eye and the stupid stuff we worry about or put up with just isn't that important.












Monday, February 13, 2012

Goodbye Whitney

This video is f*cking incredible.

Whitney Houston singing "And I Am Telling You I'm Not Going" at the American Music Awards in 1994.



What a waste.

I owned and worshipped The Bodyguard soundtrack when I was a wee boy.

I also loved the song from The Preacher's Wife.

We will miss you Whitney.

Thursday, June 18, 2009

Kross Kuntry Adventure: NOLA Day 2 / Ninth Ward

Wednesday | June 18, 2009

We met up with the birthday girl for brunch an cupcakes.



Brunch consisted of Fried Chicken Salad.



And a "Breathtaking Beef" Po-Boy slathered in horseradish mayo. SO DELICIOUS.



After making a hefty $3 profit on the diner slot machine...



Smershy's wonderful roommate Jeanne took us on a tour of the Ninth Ward - the area devastated by hurricane Katrina.




The first things we saw were some of the new developments spearheaded by Brad Pitt & Co.

They are very interestingly designed with solar panels and all that shiz.






As you drive along though, you see that many of these newer homes are interspersed with lots of completely missing or deserted homes. A lot of the hurricane damage remains untouched.







Sadface!









Anyway, quite an interesting area to visit.

We also stopped by Jackson Square for some shopping!



And ended up at the wonderful jewelry store Mignon Faget!



On Peniston Street!



Gosh I love Nola.

Monday, June 23, 2008

RIP Moondoggie

Mike and Kristy's cat Moondoggie (aka Moonberry) died yesterday.

It was really really sad. She was almost 9 years old.

Late last week she had throat problems and they brought her into the doctor and had her checked out and xrayed and couldn't figure out anything wrong.

Then I think Sunday night/Monday morning she began having extreme difficulty breathing and they brought her in again.

Xrays, cat scans, endoscopies...I didn't even know they did all that stuff for little kittys. (It costs as much as it does for humans...without insurance.)

In the end, she didn't make it.

Goodbye Moondoggie. I know you're safe and rolling around and acting like a dog in happy little cat heaven.



Leave her some love on her MySpace.

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Goodbye Los Angeles...

A few months ago I got kind of bummed out and went through a pseudo-existential crisis.

Life got stagnant. I felt bored and useless and lonely.

So, I made the decision to spend the summer in NYC and see where that would take me.

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Since that weird little week, life has changed. Things are moving along. Things got better...even great. I'm no longer bored. Friendships have strengthened. New people have come into my life. And it feels a little like I'm cutting out just when everything's peaking, a la Arrested Development or Sex and the City.

I don't necessarily regret my decision to leave. I'm totally excited for two months in NYC. But the flip-side of that coin is leaving behind a bunch of great left-coasters.

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Well...the time to go had finally arrived.

For my last night in WeHo, we got together at Felix for food and drink.










Fubar Jay kept the Sangria flowing.



Old buddies had a chance to catch up and reconnect.



And Naia and Kev became new BFFs.



Also there was a wee bit of dancing.





As the evening wore down, the bittersweetness became apparent, and the supersadfaces started surfacing.








I am sad.

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But two months isn't that long a time.

And New York is a fun place to visit.

Goodbye for now my friends!